Linx’s Reading Recommendations

Linx Dating’s Summer Reading List

1. How to Not Die Alone (Simon & Schuster) by Logan Ury
   
2. Wired for Love (New Harbinger Publications) by Stan Tatking
   
3. The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work (Harmony Books) by John and Julie Gottman 
   
4. Getting the Love You Want (St. Martin’s Griffin) by Harville Hendrix
   

We wanted to share some of our top books to add to your 2022 summer reading list. The four books we have listed above can provide you with the tools to expand your relational skills in intimacy, personal accountability, vulnerability, and much more. 

Step into the summer months by bringing transformative personal growth! Prioritize taking care of yourself and advancing your personal experiences to try new things with new people. 

Happy reading! XO

Recruiting single women age 24-30

Linx is recruiting single females 24-30, from any cultural heritage, 5’7”+ in height, feminine, fit, and natural in her appearance. She’s brainy, down to earth, globally aware and culturally curious, and flexible to work remote from anywhere in the world! Bonus points for highly educated! This is a search for two extremely eligible bachelors. No fees for qualifying women.

Email our founder Amy today: amy@linxdating.com

This Week in Perspective

Linx is just buzzing non-stop with simply incredible eligible men and women writing me. Gorgeous, insanely beautiful women (who happen to be scary smart too) and extremely successful gentlemen (who happen to be down-to-earth, respectful, and kind as well). Our database of eligibles is spilling over. It is great and it is keeping me super crazy busy….round the clock. Love it.

Just got an update from a darling couple that is in Europe together right now on their very first dream vacation as a couple. She’s a family centric and preppy late 20’s dolly type and he’s an uber driven and accomplished 30 something exec.

They make the cutest pair ever and I think what has really worked for them is that while they are both motivated work wise, they are both goofy and able to “just be” after work and really get to know one another. They’re driving all around the Riviera and enjoy the luxe romantic life.

We have another series of days screening many women (and a few guys too) who have submitted info to meet the VIPs this week. We even have women flying in from LA and the East Coast to meet the Linx team. If you know anyone who might enjoy seeing if they make a good match to meet VIPs of Linx, have them email me or direct them here: http://linxdating.com/meetvip.html. We will be conducting new appointments in October.

One of my Tweets this week that has gotten a lot of good feedback is meeting ‘the one’ should have you experiencing a feeling of being short of breath, a fire where you know you’re in the game. Have you had that feeling? Being so completely excited, nervous, elated, and overcome with emotion about someone you just met? If you haven’t felt that before, it is only a matter of time. Stop being hard on yourself. Open yourself up to new possibilities. Let your guard down. Be friendly to everyone you meet in your daily life. Announce to the world you are ready to fall in love with open arms!

My husband and I had the pleasure of attending a dinner party for such a lovely Linx couple this past weekend. They were married last year and are now moving to Southern California. Sniff Sniff. They are so crazy in love and excited for this new journey and chapter in their life. She is going to manage the household, furnish the stunning beachfront home, and take care of her true love. They are such advocates of using a matchmaking firm it puts the hugest smile on my face. Although they won’t be neighbors anymore and I don’t get to see them as often as I did, we have an invite to stay at their new home. Start tomorrow with new possibilities and an outlook that love is possible for those who truly want it.

Twitter commentary from our VIP

One of our Linx VIP guys responded to these tweets from @linxdating yesterday with some irreverent humor. I couldn’t help myself but put these comments up which are too great.

Tweet: Raising capital for startups in Silicon Valley as a female has its +/-. A female entrepreneur told me an investor said things no angel says

His comment: If angels talk to you, you should understand that you are already dead.

Tweet: People often let actions/behavior slide in the honeymoon stage. Deep into the relationship, it isn’t peaches and cream. Too late to reverse

His comment: Actually this is reversed. In the honeymoon stage, people are all peaches and cream. Once they are hooked, then they revert to being themselves.

Tweet: You start a company in Silicon Valley. You do a series A round, a series B, and then a series C … and then discover.. you’re still single.

His comment: By the time you are at a Series C round, you are more diluted than the house bourbon at a third rate bar

Tweet: Cheap in money, can be cheap in spirit when dating.

His comment: Really and that’s not obvious?

Tweet: Be less judgmental when picking and choosing people to date. If you seek perfection, you’re facing a tough road ahead.

His comment: Perfectionists don’t seek perfection, they seek those who are less so, because it allows them to point out all the short-comings of the less-than-perfect.

Tweet: You can’t seek love. It seeks you.

His comment: That’s called stalking and there are laws against such behavior

Tweet: People and culture are the spice of life

His comment: Marines in Afghanistan would probably quarrel with this statement

Tweet: The female career in Silicon Valley often eclipses the man’s in today’s world. If so, make him feel resourceful, useful, masculine, and loved.

His comment: Not exactly, but see Dennis Miller’s famous rant on what men really want from a woman, and only then will you understand why it is true that men and women arrive to earth from different planets.

Tweet: Ice breaker a client who flew in from overseas shared. She has walked up to men on the street & asks ‘Are you thirsty? Let’s have a drink’

His comment: For some reason, the phrase “stranger danger” suddenly comes to mind.

Announcing our latest VIP male!

We are elated to start working with a new male VIP. He has take the time to write this narrative to the Linx female readership with the hopes that one of you might be his dream match. Ladies…this guy is very, *very* handsome.
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I guess I didn’t picture myself putting my bio out here like this. It feels vulnerable, a little daring, and exposed. Maybe you agree?

A little bit about me. I grew up in New Orleans, and have a super close relationship to my family. Love my adorable nieces, and look up to my parents who have been married for over 45 years with respect and admiration.

Education, integrity, and tenacity, are all mantras in my life. I’m an executive by day and work really hard, but also play hard. I love anything creative and artistic — in fact, I enjoy writing, and have a best-selling book in circulation. I also enjoy photography, and going on photo tours of incredible places. I’m definitely looking for a career driven match, who understands I work a lot, and has her own life, and gets tremendous satisfaction from her awesome job doing whatever you do! Photo I took in Honduras

I also really need my match to be able to push me intellectually. Smart girls are hot! Bring it on! I graduated from Stanford University with both my undergrad and post grad. Love my Cardinal pride.

At heart, I’m a family man who loves spending time with my parents, siblings, and nieces. I also love dogs (but don’t have one yet). Keeping active and healthy are also important parts of my daily routine. I eat well, enjoy swimming, and being active. I care about looking good for my partner.

My faith is a core tenant in my life. I’m culturally Jewish (more so than the pure religion) and ultimately desire finding a Jewish match as well. I understand that this can wash out some amazing potential matches from the start, but for me this is really important. Photo from my travels in Guatemala…unripened oranges

At the end of the day, I’m a really busy guy, but that doesn’t mean I don’t have time for a relationship. In fact, finding my needle in a haystack dream girl is my main priority. If you like what you’ve read here, email Amy Andersen to be considered for a match amy@linxdating.com. I wish you luck on your journey. Thanks for reading.

QUICK FACTS ABOUT ME:
Age: 41
Height: 6’0″
Physique: Athletic
Location: Silicon Valley
Status: Never married, no kids
Goal: Marriage and children

QUICK SNAPSHOT OF MY DREAM MATCH:
25-33 years old, very attractive, slender, feminine, strong, Jewish, smart, warm, and an “old soul.”

If you feel you could make a strong match for this outstanding bachelor of Linx, please email: amy@linxdating.com

There are ZERO fees associated with this opportunity

Follow Silicon Valley’s matchmaker on Twitter @linxdating

Announcing our exciting VIP Search! Are you a match?

We are excited to announce a new search at Linx. Our VIP client has got it all going on – 40 years old, handsome, 6’0″, slim athletic build and avid swimmer, medium length dark brown hair, and a disarming smile. He is whip smart, a highly accomplished entrepreneur, founder and current CEO of a large company he grew from the beginning, and author of a bestselling business book – a true mover and shaker.  Extremely well educated as well.

He has lived all over the United States with stops in New York, LA, New Orleans and the Bay Area, among others and has a kernel of laid back cajun charm that lurks as an undercurrent to a very driven and intense personality. Despite his busy CEO life, at heart, he is a family man who loves spending time with his parents, siblings, and nieces, loves dogs, and hopes to craft his own close-knit family unit with his perfect match.  With that said, our client is Jewish and his cultural faith (more so than the pure religion) is very important to him – this means that his ideal match was raised Jewish.  

Note, this photo is not our client…..our client is tall, dark, and handsome like this photo.

His perfect woman 25-32 years old, very attractive, feminine, strong, smart, warm, an “old soul,” and shares his comfort in (and priority on) Jewish culture particularly with respect to family.

If you know anyone who might make a great match for our VIP or you think you have what it takes, please email me asap amy@linxdating.com. Take a leap of faith and email us. Don’t hold back…this guy is a dream!

 

Love Linx Clients

At Linx we embrace our clients working around the clock for them. Today one VIP surprised me with a kind unexpected gesture. This man is truly a dynamic and extremely desirable gentleman. It is our mission to find him the love of his life this year. 

For those reading, if you are interested in seeing if you qualify to meet him after reading this short description, ping me asap.  He is early 50’s, yet looks as though he is in his early 40’s.  He is 6’0″, has a very confident and commanding presence, Caucasian, and extremely fit. He has the most piercing blue eyes and ready white smile ever….straight out of a Colgate commercial. He is Stanford educated and running his own hyper successful business.

A true reinanance man who is passionate about: giving back to the community, the arts, fitness, spirituality, yoga, wine, fast cars, and surfing. He is a class act, warm, compassionate, intellectual, loving, and very family centric. Never married, no kids. 2013 is absolutely “his year” to have Linx help him in his quest to find his princess. His dream girl is incredibly beautiful outside and inside, warm, smart, sweet, deeply caring, happy, balanced, fit, and desiring marriage and children like he is.

This man is a true gentleman in every sense of the word. He will literally roll out the red carpet throughout an entire marriage. If you are desiring a handsome prince charming who is so far above and beyond so many guys in terms of elegance, class,  depth, success, and kind-heartedness he is “your” guy. We are committed to finding him “the one” by June of this year.