Dear faithful readers,
Although I don’t know most of you personally, I am thankful that you are reading the blog and hopefully enjoying the random things I post here from Linx HQ. I’d like to get to know all of you better and thus encourage you to comment on any of the entries. Don’t be shy! And, yes, you can do this anonymously. I’m going to start a new “ask anything” part of the Linx website where you can submit dating and relationship questions to my inbox and I will answer on the blog, keeping your identity totally and completely anonymous. So go for it!
Q: ” Amy when is it appropriate to sleep with the guy I am really into?”
A: Although it can be very tempting with hormones firing in all directions, resist that temptation until you are exclusive! If you are serious about love and getting to the goal of marriage in the near future, absolutely wait until you are in an exclusive relationship.
Our featured song is Enrique Iglesias Tonight I’m Lovin’ You.
Women make it too easy for guys right and left by having sex without any sort of commitment. I was horrified, when I was dating in San Francisco, at how casual guys were about sex. “Stay over tonight,” he would say. “Huh?” was my response followed by a “not ’til we are exclusive.”
Guess what? The serious good guys will RESPECT your wishes, beg, and drool like hungry pups waiting for their dinner and the WRONG ones will drive you home that night (thus rejected) saying “ciao bella.” After he drops you off at home (or hails you a cab or worse yet, you get yourself a cab) chances are he will never call or ask you out again. Let’s face it, in many ways, you did reject his sexual advance. On the other hand, sister, you are putting your values and needs first, not his testosterone.
For him, there are so many other girls willing to go downtown and do the horizontal mambo that you can focus on finding the right guy.