Day: February 6, 2012

Heart of the Silicon Valley

On March 4th, some of Silicon Valley’s most desirable and interesting folks will come out to support the Heart of the Silicon Valley http://www.hosv.org/Events/events.shtml at the exquisite Montalvo Arts Center in Saratoga.

Square Peg Foundation, which provides a sanctuary for needy horses and an adaptive riding program for children with special needs will receive event proceeds. The benefit will include a reception supported by local restaurants and wineries, as well as an auction and concert featuring local favorite LUCE Band, whose first album earned an award for best debut album, as well as song credits in major motion pictures and television shows. Opening the show will be Northern California sensation Megan Slankard. Both artists are on the short list of rising musicians to watch.

This is a fantastic event to support a great cause and also mingle with a fun and very energetic crowd of charitable types. For those on the market and looking for a good match, it happens to be rich with eligible guests- so another reason to go!

When:             Sunday, March 4, 2012 4:00 PM – 8:00 PM

What:              Intimate Private Benefit Concert • VIP Reception • Silent Auction

Where:           Montalvo Arts Center, Saratoga, CA

Why:               To raise money and awareness for Square Peg Foundation, (San    Mateo).            http://www.squarepegfoundation.org/

Music by:       LUCE, with opening performance by Megan Slankard

Tickets:         Tickets: VIP: $150, General Admission: $80

Audience:      300 attendees: affluent aged 35-65 (professionals, music, wine and art lovers, supporters of good causes, from Atherton, Woodside, Portola Valley, Palo Alto, Los Gatos, Saratoga, San Francisco, and other Bay area towns)

Contacts:       Tickets:            www.hosv.org  | 650-856-8041

We Moved Offices!

We moved offices from Palo Alto to Menlo Park and are part of an exclusive artisan community situated in a residential neighborhood. Our new office is so much more elegant, rich with history, pretty, and very spacious. 

I first thought I would miss my old Palo Alto office since I was there for over 5 years but haven’t regretted the move at all.  My old space had yucky carpets, pesky neighbors, and was tiny! Plus the parking downtown Palo Alto was often a headache.

The new space is so calming and totally “Linx.” The living room area where meetings are held is a color palate of soft hues of greens and my office/den is a color palate of reds with accents of blues- the perfect passionate nest to create romantic matches for our clients. We are by-appointment only and typically do our meetings Monday-Thursdays. Parking is very easy, wine is served, candles lit, music soft, and conversation is always interesting (and of course, highly confidential).

Scratching the Surface of the Horse Community

My sister and I enjoyed a leisurely Saturday taking a horseback riding lesson in Woodside. She is eligible and in her mid 20s and I have been trying to expose her to ways to connect with intelligent and well rounded men outside of the vapid San Francisco bar scene of hook-ups and tequila shots.

She was blown away by this friendly horse culture in Woodside and I was so happy she not only did a phenomenal job her first time on a horse, no less, but got to meet a lot of really nice horse lovers – hunters & jumpers, polo players, and even a guy who was reining in an arena.

She chatted with one totally hunky guy at the arena before he was going to play a polo match. At first he was a little aloof and then loosened up and was very nice. After, Ash and I grabbed brunch after at The Woodside Bakery and a perfect specimen of 6’5″ gorgeousness in polo regalia locked eyes with her as she ate her
turkey sando.  White pants, brown leather boots, leather belt, and polo top. A total hunk-spotting in Woodside and goes to show she would literally never meet this type of guy in San Francisco. Turns out he was visiting a relative and had flown in from Houston. 

My sister is a creature of habit and doesn’t necessarily like the unknown and trying things that are not in her comfort zone. It was a great exercise for her as a single girl who is seriously looking for a good commitment-minded guy to try something new and in a healthy, fun, environment. A new world, serious eye candy, and a great thigh/butt workout too that you can’t get from the gym!

My advice for any eligible woman out there is to disrupt what you are currently doing and put yourself in different environments than you would normally do. Join a coed cycling club, a hiking club, take a horseback riding lesson, or start a coed book club.

These are excellent ways to meet potential suitors that you wouldn’t necessarily bump into online, through a friend, at Philz coffee, or at work. If you don’t like it, try a new activity. Men love women who are well rounded and passionate about hobbies outside of their career. Even if you don’t find it to be a way to meet genuine guys, perhaps you will find a new interest and hobby you never knew you would be interested in!

The Sweetest Valentine- ABC News Nightline

In December of 2010, I got an email out of the blue from one of the producers at ABC News Nightline in New York inquiring if I would like to entertain doing a story about Linx and the Silicon Valley dating culture. I don’t have a publicist so I wondered how she had learned about Linx. Of course I was literally jumping out of my seat with excitement and absolute enthusiasm at this opportunity of a lifetime! It turns out she had been in the Bay Area covering a story on technology and had had a dinner with some friends and colleagues in San Francisco one evening after a long day of shooting.
Conversation quickly turned from GOOG, to politics, to dating. Someone at the table mentioned the story that Natasha Sarkisian had written for San Francisco Magazine back in 2009, http://www.modernluxury.com/san-francisco/story/the-incurable-new-bay-area-bachelor, and it sparked intrigue and curiosity for the Nightline producer. As they say, the rest is history.

We did the majority of the filming back in September 2011 and I geared up for a 45 minute TV interview with news corespondant, Bill Weir, who 99.9% of the male and female population has a crush on. No wonder- look at him! 

I rallied two fantastically enthusiastic clients to chat on camera with him, as well, and planned a last minute intimate cocktail party with 20 young professionals for the story, catered by Charlie Ayers (former GOOG chef) no less and hosted by Silicon Valley connector and investor, Pejman Nozad.  It was a very magical day- years of hard work truly paying off!

A couple of weeks ago I got an email from one of the producers explaining that they wanted to “beef the story up a bit” by featuring a real Linx date. I had to scramble quickly to locate the perfect Silicon Valley guy and dreamy San Francisco match for the piece and sure enough lucked out by getting my top two choices to agree.

Nightline flew out this past week to film again and, on Friday February 3rd, we shot what they call “B roll” of me at my new office digs in a more passive capacity where I was on the laptop and just sitting at my desk. We also got footage of my client, Sundar, and I chatting on the couch about working with Linx generally and about his date that would be filmed that evening, as well as me being interviewed alone about Sundar and the date I chose for him.

After a couple of hours of filming at my office in Menlo Park, we scooted over to Left Bank restaurant so the crew could set up cameras for the actual date. It was amazing to see behind the scenes how discreet some of the cameras were. Two tiny ones were perfectly positioned on the table and a larger one hidden on a sconce. I don’t think Menlo Park had seen so much excitement in a long time. Lots of people kept walking by the booth where the filming would take place prior to lights, camera, action to see what exactly was going on. A guy in particular kept looking over at my table and at the Nightline crew…..I joked with the crew that he is a “star fucker” and they chuckled, yep…pretty much!  They said with this type of star fucker, they simply ignore them. By ignoring, they tend to just fade away in the background. If you indluge them, forget it.

Sundar’s date was meant to arrive at 6:00pm so we could get started but ended up being fashionably late – poor thing ran out gas en route to the date. It was a moment of slight panic as the crew was ready to film and that meant that the clock was a ticking from a $$ perspective. So with her being a little late, I wondered as I sipped some much needed wine – runaway date?

Not a chance, as Ani showed up looking lovely in an orange silk BCBG dress – hair and make-up done – totally date-ready. I prepped her, forced her to sip a little wine to calm her nerves, and psyched her up about her big moment on camera. Her date was outside talking to cameras. She got mic’d and ready to rock and roll. Sundar sat at the table and the cameras started rolling as Ani walked up to the table to greet him. They chatted for about 2 hours on the actual date with cameras fading in the background. Before entrees, he got up to use the restroom and she mentioned to me that there was a bit of a stiffness to the date. We all strategized about what to do. House cocktail, I suggested! We had two fun fruity cocktails sent over to the table…..he only took a few sips.

It was really fun as my family came to Left Bank to have dinner with my husband and me during the actual filming. They got to chat with the camera guys and producer which was exciting for them as well. After the date, they got footage of Sundar and Ani talking seperately in a “post date” commentary. He said, she said….

It was a super successful day and a bittersweet ending to the final footage that Nighline will need for the feature story which is scheduled to air on February 13th. I have been so extremely blown away by the utmost professionalism of the entire ABC News Nightline staff of camera men, correspondents, and producers. This experience has been a highlight of my life and something I will always remember. Make sure to watch on February 13th or record it!